Where Nebraska Dave Has Been

Reader Contribution by Nebraska Dave
Published on November 7, 2011
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Well, folks it’s with a sad heart I write this post today. Two weeks ago my sister called with a message that our Dad of 87, who fought the good fight against bladder cancer all summer was beginning to slowly deteriorate. The cancer was in remission but the chemo and radiation wore down his strength.  She suggested I come for a visit. He lives in Las Vegas and I live in Nebraska. My daughter and grandson decided to tag along to see their grandpop. Upon arrival we were told that he had taken a turn for the worse and was now in a semi comatose state. When we arrived at the Long Term Care facility, I immediately went to his room and talked to him. He opened up his eyes and looked at me intently for five minutes as I talked, then closed his eyes. It was to be the last conversation I had with him. Five days later her passed away peacefully.

Dad started his life in a small town in Nebraska and lived all his youth years on a farm. His school education was 9th grade but he just had a way of knowing how to fix things, build things, or come up with solutions for a problem. He was a self taught truck mechanic and had his own business for over 20 years. He retired at 55 and moved to Las Vegas where he and Mom worked as trailer park managers for many years. His attitude for positive living influenced all those that knew him and his humor kept all entertained. He was indeed my hero and a great Dad.

While in Las Vegas I took Bradley fishing at a small stocked city pond close to my Dad’s long term care facility. We didn’t catch any fish but he had a good time throwing out the plastic fish and reeling it back in. The weather was good most of the time but one day it did rain …. well, they call it rain. It got the street wet. They have a term there they call dry rain. That’s when it actually rains but because the temperature is so hot it evaporates before it hits the ground. That happens during the summer hot months.

There’s not been much activity with projects or gardening the last couple weeks. All that’s left to do is to dig up the potatoes. The broccoli and carrots are not going to reach maturity but the Mesclun salad greens are still growing like weeds (pun intended). I haven’t heard anything from the new property yet, but I expect to hear something any day now.

My daughter was in a car accident right before we left for Las Vegas. Someone cut across three lanes of traffic on the Interstate and then slowed way down. She was able to get slowed down but the car behind her didn’t. The car hit her so hard that neither the trunk nor the two back doors could be opened. It blew out the back window as well. It’s a blessing that Bradley was home with me as he would have been in the back seat. Now we have to go car hunting. I’d rather take a whipping in the town square than buy or sell a car or a house. I’m just not good at wheeling and dealing. It’s a good thing that I have a friend in the car business. Oh, yeah, Lydia had a few bumps and bruises but she was OK.

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