No Time to Waste: I Want My Life to Count!

"What do you do with a couple of hours to waste? Hmmm…even though I just finished a round a golf this morning, I think I'll head back to the course and work on making all my 5-footers..."
golfer

This was a post from a friend of mine who obviously has a lot of spare time on his hands. He is not working right now. He’s trying to figure out what he wants to do for the rest of his life. So for now he does a lot of golfing.

Now I too enjoy golfing. And I believe in taking time for relaxing endeavors.

But still, I was struck by his question as to what he should do as he had "a couple of hours to waste."

To waste?

While we all need to have down time, if we find out that we have a lot of spare time on our hands we have some choices to make.

Life is too short--too full of opportunities--to waste any part of it.

The first choice is to just use the time up…indeed, just waste it. Fill in the time: watch a rerun, do something over again—do anything at all--to just pass the time.

My opinion? What a waste.

The second choice is to stay busy living. When I started out in my adult life, I had a plan. While the plan has taken many detours with twists and changes, I’ve always tried to make my life count and be relevant to myself, family and friends.

I have never had any time to "waste time." Now don't get me wrong; there is certainly a place for "down time," and we all need it.

I am talking more of an attitude of just existing instead of living deliberately.  

I have "retired" from what I was doing professionally (developing and building on large properties), but at the time of that major change, I decided that I didn't want to sit back and rock away my life.

I wanted the second half of my life to count as well.

So Marie and I deliberately spent time planning and discussing what our future would look like. We decided to move to a rural area and become farmer/ranchers.

Now, we grow things. My life is different now, but my passion for what I am doing is just as intense as it was before. I just couldn't see myself on the golf course half of my life, biding my time till I am done and so bored that I drift away.

Now I live a very purposeful rural-based life, farming and ranching--and helping others discover if this lifestyle is right for them as well. Being a farmer (part time or full time) is not for everyone, but it is hugely rewarding. 

tractor grandpa

Marie and I are very involved with the agricultural community, and our past experiences are bringing some fresh ideas to this area. We work with others, helping them with things that we have done or are learning about.

On a personal level, we are investigating some new businesses as well, including starting a feed mill and a poultry hatchery.

Wow, this is some cool new stuff, and we will certainly not be bored!

So, when your plan or circumstances take you out of your original passion or career, and you are looking for something new, don't settle for "time wasting " in life. What you have to give and contribute is too vital and important to those around you.

Take a leap, and continue to make your life count.

Of course, you will need to have an occasional round of golf mixed in… 

Read more about my new life focus here on my family blog, Rural Living Today

Your Rural Neighborhood: It's All Relative

At a recent gathering of local gardeners, a woman mentioned sharing plant starts with her next door neighbors.

“They live half a mile away,” she added. “Isn’t that funny, when your closest neighbors live way down the road?”  

Like me, she had moved from a suburban neighborhood. A few years ago we hardly had to raise our voices to talk to our neighbors, from our deck to theirs. Now we can’t even holler to our neighbors…we have to use a telephone or head on over in person. 

country road

The rural life, while rife with beautiful scenic views and picturesque landscapes, can also feel isolated. If one likes solitude, it can be found on a remote piece of land far from neighbors and traffic. If one likes lots of company, that requires lots of visiting.  

Personally I could not live alone on our property very long. Though I’m very much a homebody, I am not a good loner. Jim and I, settled into our little routine, can go for days without seeing anyone else. We do have a good internet connection and phones. We communicate daily with family and friends via phone, email, and texting.

But there’s nothing like “people with skin on,” as a child once described it. So we make a point of seeing people - both by having people come by and by leaving our place to go out where the people are.

We were fortunate to find a friend from long ago living near our new home, and since then other friends have moved to the area. But we've also found some great ways to branch out and find new friends.

If you’re starting out in a new area, there are several ways you can go about meeting people, making new friends, and getting integrated into the community. 

Meet your neighbors. We’ve met most of the families on our road and found every one of them to be friendly and warm. We’ve shared ideas, swapped tips, and helped each other out. One neighbor, also new, invited everyone over to get acquainted one evening.
Get to know local merchants. Our tiny town has just a few businesses. Farther up the highway are others, and even more in the nearest sizable town. Wherever we go, people welcome us to the community and are glad to give us suggestions or pointers about the area.
Find sources for local information. Visit the local library for community history materials and photos. Pick up visitor guides, pamphlets, maps, and event schedules at the chamber of commerce.
Seek out special interest groups to meet like-minded individuals. Look for garden clubs, service organizations, churches, and other groups and places where people gather with a common purpose.
Volunteer in the community — at a nursing home, food bank, animal shelter — meet people and provide a valuable service at the same time.
Get acquainted with your local county extension agents and agricultural organizations. They have a wealth of information on gardening, livestock, forestry, food preservation, and a multitude of other topics. Get on their email lists to be notified of classes, workshops and other educational events. 

two buddies

Before you know it, your neighborhood will span miles. Some of the people you meet will become your friends, and soon you’ll have a new social network and support system of people to enjoy life with.

Spring Means New Baby Critters on the Farm

Marie James head shotLast week I showed you some new plant life around our farm. Today we’ll put some cute critters on display.

Though our goal with livestock is mostly to produce food for our extended family, we do enjoy the animals while they’re here. We give them a good life and appreciate their contribution to our tables.

Our grandkids know what the livestock is for, but they still like to give the critters names. Some, like the docile chickens, are cuddled, held, and carried about day after day. Others, such as the squirmy piglets, are admired from a distance.

Life on the farm has taught the grandkids a lot about the cycle of life—the wonder of eggs hatching, the sadness of loss, the enjoyment of animal personalities. And the grandkids all relish the eggs and meat they help produce.

Prior to moving here, our livestock experience was limited to beef cattle and horses. Two years ago we started out with hatchery chicks, raising up laying hens and meat birds. Now that we have the chicken raising down pat, we’re adding pork production to the farm.

ONE LITTLE, TWO LITTLE PIGGIES
 piglets hiding in straw

Last month we brought home these two adorable little piglets; next week we’ll pick up four more. We promptly named them Bacon and Sausage so we won’t be distracted by their cuteness and forget their purpose.

We decided to start them out in a brushy area and see if they really are “pigatillers” as some call them. They’ve already made noticeable progress! We have them in portable electric netting, which is great for rotational grazing of any type of livestock. When they’ve chomped up all the plants in this area, we’ll just move them on to the next section.

The vegetation is really just snack food for the piggies--they eat lots of hog feed too. But we’re told that consumption of plants makes the meat taste better. The fresh grass and weeds will increase its nutritional value as well.

Piglets grow quickly—these two are rounder and taller than when they arrived. For shelter we started them out in a chicken tractor that’s just 24” tall, but they’ll need some new digs soon. For the first week or so they were hiding out in the tractor or in tall brush most of the time. But lately they’ve been brave enough to come up and watch us from behind the fence.
 piglets at fence

HERE A CHICK, THERE A CHICK, EVERYWHERE A CHICK CHICK

We really don't have any chicks yet, but three of our mamas are giving us hope! Last year we had our first “farm births” when we hatched chicks in an incubator and a couple of hens did it the old-fashioned way. This year we’re trying both methods again.
two banties brooding together

These two banties are team brooding—snuggled together and jointly covering five eggs. They are hoping to hear some peeping from their nest before long. Hedwig (a white Silkie) and Pigwidgeon (a Dark Brahma) have both sat on eggs independently before, but this is the first time I’ve seen a pair brood together like this! Hedwig hatched one chick last year; Piggy has tried unsuccessfully three times.

The pair started out in the coop nesting box, which is 36” above the floor. That’s fine for setting, but once baby chicks start moving around it could be dangerous. It would be a long fall for a little chick that can’t fly. So as their “due date” approached I moved the hens into a little nest box of their own that sits on the floor of the coop.

We use dog crates of three sizes for chickens—for giving mamas privacy, brooding hatchery chicks, isolating ill or injured birds, and hauling broilers to the processing area. This medium size crate is just right for two mamas “attached at the wing.”

 two hens in dog crate

This trio totally surprised me on a recent visit to the chicken coop.  

 three hens squeezed in nest box

April, the colored broiler hen in the middle, is broody, sitting on a clutch of eggs. Her two Buff Orpington friends, Yolk and Kelly, were just stopping by for their daily visit. The three of them just barely fit in the nest box. After Yolk and Kelly left, April the broody scooped their eggs under her tummy.

Unlike the “team broodies” who were in a nest box used by only a few other hens, April was in a well-frequented community nest. From the start I marked the eggs April is brooding so I can remove the other eggs. Every time I checked she was sitting on a clutch of eggs but some were off to the side. More than once, one or two of her original eggs was in with the newly laid eggs.

April is just one year old, and this is her first brooding experience. I think she was confused about how to handle her eggs when it’s so tempting to add the other hens’ eggs. I thought she’d do better in a private nest so no one else will lay eggs nearby.

So April moved to a dog crate tucked inside a small chicken tractor in one of the outdoor runs. She will have a private nursery when the chicks hatch. For now she can go stretch her legs in the run on her daily break. The other hens are excluded from this run to give April privacy, but they can visit through the fences.

Here you can see the maternity suite as Mama takes her daily stroll. 

 hen on break from nest

So this summer we will be raising both chickens and pigs. Next year? Hopefully some beef cows will grace our pastures. We keep learning and trying new things. It’s good exercise for our minds and our bodies.

And did I mention that we love this rural life? At our family's blog Rural Living Today we encourage others who want to give it a try. 

New Life on the Farm

Marie James head shotSpring is a time for fresh beginnings and new life. We have a few little sprouts around our homestead. 

We really enjoy gardening, growing flowers, veggies, and fruit. This is the third summer since we moved here full time. The first year we concentrated on finishing our house while we lived in a trailer. Last summer we planted some fruit trees, built a large raised planting bed, and put in a small garden. 

This year, we're expanding...just a bit. 

tomato starts 

The tomato plants we started in a storage closet are looking great! Well, maybe we got a little carried away with varieties. We like to have all sizes and types of tomatoes: some for sauce and paste, some big slicers for hamburgers and sandwiches, and some medium salad-size. And of course we love the teeny ones, so we have currant and cherry tomatoes. A friend suggested using purple tomatoes to deepen the color of sauce and paste, so we have a couple of those too.
pepper plant starts

Sweet and hot peppers and some other assorted plants are smaller but getting a good start. It will be a few more weeks before we can safely plant them outdoors without shelter. If you’re thinking about starting some seeds for summer planting, here are descriptions of how our daughter made her similar simple and inexpensive system: the shelf and light setup and the heat mats made of Christmas lights and rope lights.  It's a big improvement over last year's windowsill operation.
damaged tree sprouting new leaves

Our orchard is taking shape! Unfortunately, due to deer, gophers, frolicking dogs, and some planting errors, we lost several of the fruit trees we put in last year. We replaced some of the trees this month and are watching some other weak ones that are—amazingly--sprouting new buds. Some of them I was sure were lost for good…but they have heart! This little guy is giving it all he has.The damaged trees that recover will just be a few years behind the others when it’s time to bear fruit.
raspberry and blackberry plants

We took a country drive to a local vineyard to buy grape, raspberry, and blackberry plants. Here are the raspberries and blackberries; several types of table and wine grapes are planted next to them. We’ll also plant blueberries and gooseberries. Strawberries are growing in a raised bed in the garden area. Is there anything like a juicy berry, warmed just right by the sun? Mmm!

strawberry sprouts under mulch 

What’s sprouting at your place? 

From the City to the Country

Jim Mitchell headshotFor most of my life I lived in the city. I worked in the city. I was fortunate to have employment that I enjoyed, but to tell you the truth, the pace of life was catching up to me.

I can play the corporate game well, going through the motions seamlessly. But it was becoming difficult to keep up with the intensity and passion that is needed to keep succeeding.
 

one way sign
One way street  

The pace of life, it seemed to me, was getting faster and faster.

I was thinking that I should just move to a desert island--or maybe be more practical…and move to the country. Now that would be a change! These thoughts continued for some time and I finally had to admit that some change was in order.

You only have one life to live…and my big question was this: IS THIS ALL THERE IS? Keep doing this till…till when? 

So I took some time to think about issues that I found myself concerned with. Here are a few of them…

Unsustainable Pace of LifeIt didn’t start that way, but in the past 20 years the pace of my life had accelerated and accelerated to where I was really winded. I was tired of the unsustainable pace of life.

It takes honesty to admit this, as my macho “I can get it done” style has always ruled my life. But that fast pace really has no reward, and it was time to get off of the treadmill. I didn’t have time for…literally anything. Even my family.

Some people discover this much later in life, and it always brings the “should have…could have” questions. But for me, there was no need to wait. The pace was killing me. I no longer wanted to be a 24/7 slave to my Blackberry.

CreativityI like to create and build. But I lived on a postage stamp lot in a cookie cutter neighborhood where everything was the same.

Though I love projects, I detested the maintenance yard work. Everything was too cramped for me. I needed space, and there was no way to get any more of it in our neighborhood.

The World Around UsWithout going into detail, I will tell you I was finding myself more and more concerned about our economy and what is happening with our government.

Being a planning kind of guy, I couldn’t just sit back anymore with my head in the sand and say everything was OK. This isn’t politics…stuff was happening that I absolutely couldn’t believe…but it is true.

paint mare and foal
Paint mare and foal  

I started looking at what I should do with my family, and living in the country was a great option. I am not one to operate in fear, but with my family’s welfare at stake, I will do what I need to do.

For me, a life in the country became a reality. And now, I’m glad to be able to share it with you.


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